galling
ˈɡɔːlɪŋ
adjective
causing annoyance or resentment; annoying.
it would be galling to lose your job because of a dispute with a customer
annoying,irritating,vexing,vexatious,infuriating,maddening,irksome,provoking,exasperating,trying,tiresome,troublesome,bothersome,displeasing,disagreeable,aggravating