galling

ˈɡɔːlɪŋ

adjective

causing annoyance or resentment; annoying.

it would be galling to lose your job because of a dispute with a customer

annoying,irritating,vexing,vexatious,infuriating,maddening,irksome,provoking,exasperating,trying,tiresome,troublesome,bothersome,displeasing,disagreeable,aggravating