disobliging

dɪsəˈblʌɪdʒɪŋ

adjective

deliberately unhelpful; uncooperative.

I think you’re simply being disobliging

unhelpful,uncooperative,unaccommodating,unamenable,unyielding,inflexible,uncompromising,unreasonable,awkward,difficult,obstructive,contrary,perverse,discourteous,uncivil,unfriendly,unsympathetic