disobliging
dɪsəˈblʌɪdʒɪŋ
adjective
deliberately unhelpful; uncooperative.
I think you’re simply being disobliging
unhelpful,uncooperative,unaccommodating,unamenable,unyielding,inflexible,uncompromising,unreasonable,awkward,difficult,obstructive,contrary,perverse,discourteous,uncivil,unfriendly,unsympathetic